Believing In God Will Inspire Greatness
I am a professional firefighter for the Davenport Fire Dept, I have been a part of the department for the past 7 years, and I have been in the fire service for 10 years. I currently hold the rank of engineer, which means that I have to drive the fire engine, know all the streets in the city, get my crew to and from the fire scene without killing them, and also get them water to extinguish the fire without killing them. There is a huge responsibility on my shoulders, and at time it can be a bit overwhelming.
Being a firefighter is the best job in the world! I can honestly say that I have almost seen and done it all. I was a part of a successful rescue where we pulled a 4 year old child from a burning building and brought him back to life in the front yard. I have also been the one doing chest compressions on a 2 month old child that we couldn’t bring back to life.
There are great days, but with the great days come the very bad days. I won’t go into any detail about the very bad ones, but after witnessing them time and time again, I have grown numb to feelings. My wife says I have the skin of an alligator. There isn’t much that phases me anymore, and I don’t show much emotion. This is not a good thing, and I’ll tell you why. First, I come off as a sheltered person. If I don’t know you, I will not come up to you and talk to you. Second, I don’t like going places where there are people. I deal with some of the worst people on this earth, and because of that I have grown to dislike people. (Unless I know you) Third, having the skin of an alligator is very difficult on a marriage, for reasons that you all can probably relate to.
When I was a small child growing up, my mom was an at home mom, and my dad worked every waking hour at a factory. Times were tough and money was very tight. There were many times that we would open the cupboards to find nothing inside; literally nothing inside. I can also recall my dad driving the gravels home from work to pick up cans so he could buy gas to get back to work the next day. We all grew up healthy, turned out great, but after watching my mom and dad struggle every day, I made a promise to myself that I would never let that happen to my family…when that time came.
Well, that time came a few years ago. It seems like I woke up one morning and found myself at the young age of 25 providing for a wife, and raising 3 babies. Amanda was going to school at this time, because she spent her college days in the hospital having babies. I was the only one working, and if I remember correctly, I had 5 jobs. I was a firefighter full time, on my days off I worked for a heating and air conditioning company, at night after the heating company, I ran my own plumbing business, I also taught fire classes for the Eastern Iowa Community College, and the State of Iowa’s Fire Service Training Bureau.
I was averaging 120 hours a week on the time card, and at the same time Amanda was in school fulltime every day. All three kids went to day care, and for the 10 months that Amanda was in school, we paid $11,000.00 in day care. That’s on top of the house payment, two vehicle payments, gas, fuel, kids, and every other expense there is associated with raising a family. It wasn’t long and we found ourselves scraping up handfuls of change to pay for gas to get to work. There were days that we woke up to a 50 degree house because we couldn’t afford to put L.P. in the tank to heat the house. There were even times when there was no money to pay the bills, and if it wasn’t for the help of Amanda’s mom and dad, we would have never made it. (more…)